STRATEGIZING A GAME PLAN WITH YOUR DIVORCE
(May 21, 2019) — Are you ready for the legal battle ahead? Divorce proceedings may sap your energy, but you can choose to be prepared and remain positive. Here’s how to win your case with a competent lawyer.
There is no need for you to bother digging up incriminating evidence against a former spouse. Instead of allowing yourself to wallow in a negative pool of emotions, channel your energy to be productive instead. Work closely with the lawyer you hired so that you’ll win the arguments that will be raised in court.
Cease worrying about an uncertain future, and instead focus on the requirements of the present. Are all the documents that you have prepared already inside the portfolio? Do you have a list of questions, and will you be willing to answer questions any lawyer will pose? You should be ready to discuss the important matters with your lawyer.
Devise a game plan
Some of the key aspects for discussion are property, alimony, and child custody and support. The ultimate purpose of your meetings and legal consultations is to usher you into a sure win regarding these matters. You cannot emerge from a divorce unscathed, but you must see yourself triumphantly reaching the end of the turmoil intact.
A lack of strategy is sure death for your cause. A good lawyer persists and fights for your rights. The game plan you and your legal advisers will devise should gain you and your children ample protection and support. While the marriage may not be salvageable, you still have a full life to live.
Nurture the right attitude
Your attitude dictates the kind of experience you will have as the proceedings unfold. There may be bitterness, uncertainty, and pain, but you cannot wear these emotions on your sleeve. A compassionate divorce attorney in Colorado Springs can soothe you, but their main task is to win arguments in court, and not to wipe your tears. You will not gain sympathy if you keep putting yourself down. Keep your head up and do your part.
If you are honest and precise with your needs and preferences, a lawyer will spend less time figuring out what you really want. The guessing game can be tedious and costly. Lying about events and issues could be your downfall. Being willing and open can facilitate the achievement of your goals. Lastly, do not be afraid to provide the requested details. The smallest tidbit of factual information can help the case. A competent lawyer will not ask for information that is irrelevant and useless.
Clarify and specify
Pay close attention when the conversation with your lawyer involves important matters such as alimony and child support. If any terminology is unfamiliar, learn about it. Ask for clarification when the discussion is taking on a vague and roundabout route. The lawyer handling your case wants to work with you and make you understand. Your meetings will be more productive if you refrain from pretending to know what you don’t know.
Alimony, property division, debt, and child custody are some of the most important topics of discussion between you and your lawyer. Being involved in a divorce has its innate stresses and worries. Trust the legal battle to the team handling your case. For your part, be ready to cooperate, provide the documents needed, and offer relevant and valid information.
Sharon Rondeau has operated The Post & Email since April 2010, focusing on the Obama birth certificate investigation and other government corruption news. She has reported prolifically on constitutional violations within Tennessee’s prison and judicial systems.