“SHOW THEM THAT YOU CARE”
by Contributor
(Feb. 19, 2020) — The pain of losing a loved one is unbearable. It is the worst feeling. If a friend has lost a person close to them, this is the time you should show them that you care. You see, a death in a family changes everything. They are in shock. A sympathy gift to show your support is very important. But sympathy gift etiquette can be tricky. What should you do when someone close to you loses a family member?
Here is everything you need to know about sympathy gifts, including sympathy gifts etiquette.
Are condolences gifts appropriate?
Most times, sympathy gifts are appropriate. They are comforting, and it is a perfect way to show that you care. The only time sympathy gifts may be inappropriate is when it is against their customs. For instance, giving flowers is not a custom in the Jewish faith.
Note that even if sympathy gifts are comforting, you should put some thought into it before buying one. For instance, if you are giving food gifts, ensure you are aware of any dietary restrictions of the receiver.
Should a sympathy gift be wrapped?
Normally, a sympathy gift is ordered online and delivered by the gift company. In that case, you don’t have to worry about wrapping. However, if you have acquired a sympathy gift for the bereaved, and you intended to give them in person, wrap it nicely with a plain white or silver paper.
Where to buy sympathy gifts?
If there is a suitable local store that provides excellent sympathy gifts, then you are in luck. However, purchasing them online and having the sympathy gifts delivered on your behalf is the best option. There are many amazing online gift companies, such as GiftTree.com.
What are the appropriate sympathy gifts?
Perfect sympathy gifts are the ones that show that you care. If you know the bereaved person well you can give them something they really like as long as it won’t make them feel worse. The following are suggestions for suitable condolences gifts.
- Sympathy gift basket – giving bereaved family tangible items such as fruit baskets, baked goods, or a basket of different food items is a great way to offer comfort. It would be a great way to show support by taking responsibility for some basic needs like food and drinks during the mourning period and the days after the funeral.
- A flower arrangement – sending a beautiful floral arrangement to the home of the bereaved family is a great way to show support. In communities where flowers are not allowed, you can find other brilliant sympathy gifts or just give monetary donations.
- Give presents that can be used or displayed in remembrance of the deceased
- Gift of service – A tangible gift is good for a mourning friend, but finding something you can do to help them is even better. You can offer to watch their children for an evening, clean her house, cook for them, or do anything that will relieve them of some stress.